The Unfortunate Allure Of Affairs

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“The allure of affairs is that they’re not bogged down with the realities of everyday life.” So I’m at home, indulging in one of my true guilty pleasures: the ID Channel. I really shouldn’t be watching this channel. I mean, I really shouldn’t. After all, I’ve got books to write. Deadlines to meet! Luckily my guilty […]


Where’s The Sex? Frustrations Of Love In The Digital Age

Nude guy in bed alone

One nice thing about the holiday season is that we often have a little more time than normal to snuggle up with loved ones. Even if you don’t have a fireplace, snuggling is a good way to keep your fires burning, right? Unless, of course, you and your loved one have never even met. Strange […]


Rolling Around Naked In The Snow

Couple in the sand

I’m headed off to Finland tomorrow for Christmas with family. Despite the fact that it’s cold and dark there, it’s a good time. Friends, family, great food, incredible pastries, and icy cold vodka. Oh, and there’s also an opportunity to get naked, plunge headfirst into a snowbank, and roll around like a dog in heat. […]


Give Me Some Of That Baboon Piss, ‘Cause I’m In The Mood For Love

Sexy couple b&w Italian looking guy

We’ve all heard talk about aphrodisiacs that supposedly stimulate certain nerve endings or elevate the heart rate and energy level to get the ol’ motor running, but as I mentioned in the comment section of Kiersten Hallie Krum‘s Monday blog, I’m not buying it. I’ve slurped my share of oysters, eaten plenty of chocolate, and […]


The Ultimate Down And Dirty Bromance – Why Ladies Love Gay Porn

I’m celebrating the release of my writer friend C. Margery Kempe’s Man City: Martin this week, and it got me thinking about M/M love and M/M romance and eventually it turned my naughty thoughts to M/M porn. Super fit, hot-bodied guys doing the bump and grind with other hot-bodied guys. Any problem with that? As it […]


Deck The Halls With Your Sparkling Vagina!

Sexy blond, black background

Brace yourselves, everyone, because Thanksgiving is a week from tomorrow. That means the holiday season is officially upon us. GAAAH!! Time to make spicy cider, decorate the house, buy festive clothing . . . oh yeah, and schedule an appointment to bedazzle your vagina. That’s right, ladies. This week I’m talking luxury. It’s time to get […]